The challenges of life in a pandemic, racial unrest and the continued targeting of black and brown citizens, the growing political divide, the huge loss of jobs, and the lack of support for those struggling financially, have to be addressed. But knowing how to contribute, how to help, isn’t easy. Each day it seems there’s more bad news, stories of corruption and system failure. It can feel like being caught in a tsunami of overwhelm and hopelessness.
Both an inner and outer journey needed is needed for us to shift out of the energy of fear and violence into the place of peace and love. In Soldier of Love, Tj Bartel tells the story of his climb out of a life of violence and dysfunction into a life devoted to love. Tj shares vulnerably about the tough times he’s faced and the potent spiritual lessons he has learned providing a blueprint others can follow to help themselves and the world. Calling on his more than 20 years as a spiritual entrepreneur, Tj effectively guides those ready to become Soldiers of Love through seven powerful concepts for change:
With a clear-cut and easy-to-follow path, the stories and lessons in Soldier of Love will guide you on a journey towards being the best possible version of yourself, so that you can awaken to more love in your life, claim your power, and say YES to change. Enjoy the ride!
“Years ago, I was introduced to Carlos Castaneda’s A Separate Reality and what he called the warrior’s way. I decided then to join the ranks of those who strive to use their gifts to increase the Love and the Light. I have had many teachers, but no personal guide, no don Juan to prepare me for the struggles against fear, ignorance, vulgarity and darkness. A warrior needs a training manual. Now, I have Tj Bartel’s Soldier of Love—a blueprint that is altogether convincing, comprehensive, and crystal clear. I am all in.”
—Roger W. Washington, MD, FAAFP, teacher and author of Sleep Matters
Tj's long awaited book How to be a Great Lover Overnight - 8 Steps to Sexual Awakening: A Man’s Guide to Loving a Woman is now available on Amazon Kindle.
The lack of accurate and helpful information available to men today is astonishing. The problem is that men and women are wired differently, and it's essential to understand how those differences cause confusion and uncertainty. This lack of understanding, along with massive amounts of misinformation, are responsible for so much sexual dysfunction, porn addiction, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and skyrocketing divorce rates. Yet, you already have within you all of the tools to please the woman in your life. Get the inside track on how to bridge this gap and access your unique power as a man. In Be a Great Lover Overnight, Tj Bartel draws from years of personally facilitating the sexual awakening of thousands of women around the world to teach you how to:
Learn to give pleasure like a pro and last as long as you like during sexual experiences. Discover the powerful principles and practices that will allow her to feel safe, surrendered, and turned on, all at the same time, so she has more pleasure than she ever thought possible. Get the transformational knowledge you need to become the Great Lover you were always meant to be.
In this video, Tj Bartel shares how conscious and unconscious questions can help or hurt the quality and health of your relationship.
Rather than asking who is at fault in times of conflict, Tj suggest we need more helpful conscious questions.
As a life coach, Tj offers relationship coaching and workshops. Tj will help you explore the skills that lead to relationship mastery and the profound shifts that are possible from real intimacy.
Experience the transformational power of Life-Force Energetic Alignment Protocol (LEAP) to restore balance and optimal functioning to your energy body and your life.
Tj is creating several online courses for couples that can support you in experiencing your most empowered state yet. Stay tuned for details.
Tj Bartel is a relationship expert and couples coach with a very unique approach to Conscious Sexuality that integrates modern neuroscience, cutting edge personal growth techniques, and ancient Tantric and Taoist wisdom.
After earning a Bachelor’s Degree in psychology at San Diego State University, Tj graduated at the top of his class at Tony Robbins Mastery University. He trained with Charles Muir, the grandfather of the modern tantra movement, becoming an Advanced Certified Tantric Educator and taught with him at Source School of Tantra Yoga for 15 years. He also studied Tantra with Margot Anand and Taoism with Mantak Chia and Chi Nei Tsang with Gilles Marine.
Tj studied energetic mastery with Lynda Caesara in Berkeley California for 10 years and served as her teaching partner for five years. He also brings his knowledge of modern neuroscience, NLP, NAC, and neural pathways reprogramming to the equation, which he explores in his audio book, Create More Passion Tonight: Uniting Ancient Wisdom and Modern Brain Science with renowned neuroscientist Daniel Amen.
Tj's best-selling book Be a Great Lover Overnight and its companion course The Great Lover Blueprint support men and couples in deepening their capacity for emotional and physical intimacy.
Most recently, Tj has developed a powerful new practice called LEAP: Lifeforce Energetic Alignment Protocol to help people understand and upgrade their body’s energetic operating system. It is this system which is at the root of both emotional and physical pain. In addition, Tj also enjoys leading sacred pilgrimages exploring the magic and mystery of Ancient Egypt with his current teaching partner Dr. Rima Bonario.
Tj also writes extensively. Read his writings at his various blogs:
Or book Tj to serve as a non-denominational minister at your life celebration / service: Tj Bartel Minister
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