Tj Bartel: Relationship Coaching

Create extraordinary relationships.

Become more empowered and alive than ever before. 

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 As a life coach, Tj offers relationship coaching and workshops. Tj will help you explore the skills that lead to relationship mastery and the profound shifts that are possible from real intimacy.

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LEAP Sessions


Experience the transformational power of Life-Force Energetic Alignment Protocol (LEAP)  to restore balance and optimal functioning to your energy body and your life. 

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Classes & Workshops


Tj is creating several online courses for couples that can support you in experiencing your most empowered state yet. Stay tuned for details.

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About Tj Bartel


Author, Teacher, Coach

Tj is a relationship expert and couples coach with a very unique approach to Conscious Sexuality that integrates modern neuroscience, cutting edge personal growth techniques, and ancient Tantric and Taoist wisdom.

After earning a Bachelor’s Degree in psychology at San Diego State University, Tj graduated at the top of his class at Tony Robbins Mastery University.  He trained with Charles Muir, the grandfather of the modern tantra movement, becoming an Advanced Certified Tantric Educator and taught with him at Source School of Tantra Yoga for 15 years. He also studied Tantra with Margot Anand and Taoism with Mantak Chia and Chi Nei Tsang with Gilles Marine. 

Tj studied energetic mastery with Lynda Caesara in Berkeley California for 10 years and served as her teaching partner for five years. He also brings his knowledge of modern neuroscience, NLP, NAC, and neural pathways reprogramming to the equation, which he explores in his audio book, Create More Passion Tonight: Uniting Ancient Wisdom and Modern Brain Science with renowned neuroscientist Daniel Amen. 

Tj's best-selling book Be a Great Lover Overnight and its companion course The Great Lover Blueprint support men and couples in deepening their capacity for emotional and physical intimacy. 

Most recently, Tj has developed a powerful new practice called LEAP: Lifeforce Energetic Alignment Protocolto help people understand and upgrade their body’s energetic operating system. It is this system which is at the root of both emotional and physical pain. In addition, Tj also enjoys leading sacred pilgrimages exploring the magic and mystery of Ancient Egypt with his current teaching partner Dr. Rima Bonario. 

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