Tj Bartel

Author, Teacher, Coach

Tj Bartel is a relationship expert, life coach and couples coach with a very unique approach to Conscious Sexuality that integrates modern neuroscience, cutting edge personal growth techniques, and ancient Tantric and Taoist wisdom.


After earning a Bachelor’s Degree in psychology at San Diego State University, Tj graduated at the top of his class at Tony Robbins Mastery University.  He trained with Charles Muir, the grandfather of the modern tantra movement, becoming an Advanced Certified Tantric Educator and taught with him at Source School of Tantra Yoga for 15 years. He also studied Tantra with Margot Anand and Taoism with Mantak Chia and Chi Nei Tsang with Gilles Marine. 

Tj studied energetic mastery with Lynda Caesara in Berkeley California for 10 years and served as her teaching partner for five years. He also brings his knowledge of modern neuroscience, NLP, NAC, and neural pathways reprogramming to the equation, which he explores in his audio book, Create More Passion Tonight: Uniting Ancient Wisdom and Modern Brain Science with renowned neuroscientist Daniel Amen. 

Tj's best-selling book Be a Great Lover Overnight and its companion course The Great Lover Blueprint support men and couples in deepening their capacity for emotional and physical intimacy. 

Most recently, Tj has developed a powerful new practice called LEAP: Lifeforce Energetic Alignment Protocol to help people understand and upgrade their body’s energetic operating system. It is this system which is at the root of both emotional and physical pain. In addition, Tj also enjoys leading sacred pilgrimages exploring the magic and mystery of Ancient Egypt with his current teaching partner Dr. Rima Bonario. 


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The Cari Murphy Show Interview

Tj Bartel is an author, love coach, relationship expert, tantra master, and co-creator of“Create More Passion Tonight: Uniting Ancient Wisdom and Modern Brain Science” with renowned neuroscientist Dr. Daniel Amen. Tj has helped hundreds of couples and thousands of individuals learn sacred sexual healing techniques to become more empowered and alive than ever before.

Tj is a graduate of Mastery University under Tony Robbins and an Advanced Certified Tantric Educator with Charles Muir’s Source School of Tantra. He studied Psychology at SDSU. He has completed Divine Feminine Institute training with Carolyn Muir, Love & Ecstasy training with Margo Anand and is familiar with the work of Deepak Chopra and David Deida.


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