Tj Bartel: Relationship Coaching
Create extraordinary relationships.
Become more empowered and alive than ever before.
the great lover blueprint for men
Step into your full potential as a man and lover.
In the struggle to keep up with evolving gender roles both in and out of the bedroom, many men find themselves failing to find sexual fulfillment for themselves or their partners. In The Great Lover Blueprint, Tj Bartel shares his wisdom, with accessible and loving language, about how to understand and communicate with the women in our lives. Bartel offers his incredible toolbox of practices, including breathwork, energy, touch, pelvic, and other techniques to enhance connection and sensitivity. With more than twenty years as a spiritual entrepreneur, Bartel effectively guides those ready to become Great Lovers through his 8-step process to cultivate sexual connection and intimacy:
Step 1: Develop the Great Lover Mindset
Step 2: Bridge the Gap Between Men and Women
Step 3: Understanding Energy
Step 4: The 7 Modalities of Touch
Step 5: Explore the Lost Art of Kissing
Step 6: Learn the Keys to Moving Energy
Step 7: Unlock Her Full Orgasmic Potential (and Yours!)
Step 8: Give an Awakening Session
With a clear-cut and easy-to-follow roadmap, the stories and lessons in The Great Lover Blueprint will guide you on a journey to being the best possible version of yourself, so that you can awaken to more love, pleasure, connection, and intimacy in your life—by being a Great Lover!
“Great Lover Blueprint for Men is an amazing culmination of multiple disciplines distilled into practical examples and easy to follow practices. Tj Bartel has personally taught me most of what is in this life-changing book, and my life has indeed been radically transformed—I am a great lover! He breaks down ‘mysterious’ concepts like ‘energy’ into bite-sized, digestible, and actionable information. This book is the blueprint for transforming your patterns into being the great lover that you want to be!” —Tobias White
Soldier of Love: An Evolutionary Blueprint or Thriving
Don't just survive, THRIVE in times of chaos
The challenges of life in a pandemic, racial unrest and the continued targeting of black and brown citizens, the growing political divide, the huge loss of jobs, and the lack of support for those struggling financially, have to be addressed. But knowing how to contribute, how to help, isn’t easy. Each day it seems there’s more bad news, stories of corruption and system failure. It can feel like being caught in a tsunami of overwhelm and hopelessness.
Both an inner and outer journey needed is needed for us to shift out of the energy of fear and violence into the place of peace and love. In Soldier of Love, Tj Bartel tells the story of his climb out of a life of violence and dysfunction into a life devoted to love. Tj shares vulnerably about the tough times he’s faced and the potent spiritual lessons he has learned providing a blueprint others can follow to help themselves and the world. Calling on his more than 20 years as a spiritual entrepreneur, Tj effectively guides those ready to become Soldiers of Love through seven powerful concepts for change:
- Cultivating Presence
- Mastering Energy
- Living in Balance
- Developing Discipline
- Creating Clarity
- Acquiring Skills
- Taking Action
With a clear-cut and easy-to-follow path, the stories and lessons in Soldier of Love will guide you on a journey towards being the best possible version of yourself, so that you can awaken to more love in your life, claim your power, and say YES to change. Enjoy the ride!
“Years ago, I was introduced to Carlos Castaneda’s A Separate Reality and what he called the warrior’s way. I decided then to join the ranks of those who strive to use their gifts to increase the Love and the Light. I have had many teachers, but no personal guide, no don Juan to prepare me for the struggles against fear, ignorance, vulgarity and darkness. A warrior needs a training manual. Now, I have Tj Bartel’s Soldier of Love—a blueprint that is altogether convincing, comprehensive, and crystal clear. I am all in.”
—Roger W. Washington, MD, FAAFP, teacher and author of Sleep Matters
Work with Tj
Events
Classes & Workshops
LEAP Sessions
As a life coach, Tj offers relationship coaching and workshops. Tj will help you explore the skills that lead to relationship mastery and the profound shifts that are possible from real intimacy.
LEAP Sessions
Classes & Workshops
LEAP Sessions
Experience the transformational power of Life-Force Energetic Alignment Protocol (LEAP) to restore balance and optimal functioning to your energy body and your life.
Classes & Workshops
Classes & Workshops
Classes & Workshops
Tj is creating several online courses for couples that can support you in experiencing your most empowered state yet. Stay tuned for details.
About Tj Bartel
Author, Teacher, Coach
Tj Bartel is a relationship expert and couples coach with a very unique approach to Conscious Sexuality that integrates modern neuroscience, cutting edge personal growth techniques, and ancient Tantric and Taoist wisdom.
After earning a Bachelor’s Degree in psychology at San Diego State University, Tj graduated at the top of his class at Tony Robbins Mastery University. He trained with Charles Muir, the grandfather of the modern tantra movement, becoming an Advanced Certified Tantric Educator and taught with him at Source School of Tantra Yoga for 15 years. He also studied Tantra with Margot Anand and Taoism with Mantak Chia and Chi Nei Tsang with Gilles Marine.
Tj studied energetic mastery with Lynda Caesara in Berkeley California for 10 years and served as her teaching partner for five years. He also brings his knowledge of modern neuroscience, NLP, NAC, and neural pathways reprogramming to the equation, which he explores in his audio book, Create More Passion Tonight: Uniting Ancient Wisdom and Modern Brain Science with renowned neuroscientist Daniel Amen.
Tj's best-selling book Be a Great Lover Overnight and its companion course The Great Lover Blueprint support men and couples in deepening their capacity for emotional and physical intimacy.
Most recently, Tj has developed a powerful new practice called LEAP: Lifeforce Energetic Alignment Protocol to help people understand and upgrade their body’s energetic operating system. It is this system which is at the root of both emotional and physical pain. In addition, Tj also enjoys leading sacred pilgrimages exploring the magic and mystery of Ancient Egypt with his current teaching partner Dr. Rima Bonario.
Tj also writes extensively. Read his writings at his various blogs:
Or book Tj to serve as a non-denominational minister at your life celebration / service: Tj Bartel Minister